Let's be honest – most 13-year-old boys want cash. But you can give cash and a small thoughtful thing.

We found Bar Mitzvah gifts that work – money (seriously, give money), cool tech accessories, sports stuff, gift cards to places he likes, and meaningful Jewish gifts if you want to go that route.

Need something for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? Got you.

He'll remember your gift if it's cash. He'll remember it even more if you also got something personal.